Heal from your visibility wounds, dodge regret, and feel relaxed being seen because you’re centered on your passions.
Have a fear of being noticed? Me too. I always chalked it up to being an introvert until I realized it was deeper than that. Whether you are a creative, a cook, a communicator, or anything in between, self-expression means you will be noticed eventually. So if it's an inevitable thing then why is it still SO PAINFUL to dip into the spotlight? Visibility is a struggle for those of us working through our self-doubt. Whole rooms of fear and trepidation that stay locked up inside often feed these fears.
Fears like:
🥀 If I say something in this meeting, I’m going to sound like an idiot.
🥀 Someone more qualified than me should be talking about this topic instead.
🥀 What if people use my flaws to discredit me?
🥀 It’s probably too late in the game to try something new like this.
🥀 What if people judge me for what I like?
We all have visibility wounds. For women especially, standing out at many points in history was a threat to both your physical and psychological sense of safety. It was better to stay hidden. Until it's not. If you’re tired of living life from the sidelines as a wallflower, always second-guessing yourself, and never chipping in with your good ideas, there are ways out of this maze. Go from wallflower to a woman who communicates with poise and self-confidence with my free ebook!